In Memoriam

Herb Horowitz, PhD

Photo by Julia

With a full heart, I tell you of the passing of a dear friend’s father and my friend, Herb Horowitz, PhD. A clinical psychologist, a beloved father, and a cherished friend, Herb touched the lives of many with his profound insights and gentle demeanor. His passing on Wednesday, May 22, 2024, leaves a void in our hearts, but his legacy will forever live on.

Herb was not just a clinical psychologist; he was a beacon of wisdom and compassion. Through his work, he offered comfort and guidance to countless individuals grappling with the complexities of the human mind. His ability to listen, understand, and provide support was unparalleled. Herb’s unique way made you feel seen, heard, and comforted by his words.

Herb’s impact extended far beyond the confines of his office. He served as a friend, confidant, and inspiration to many. His presence reminded us to live with intention, question everything, and find meaning in adversity. Herb made me think about life and death in profound ways. Be it through deep conversations about death and dying or thought-provoking discussions about family dynamics.

One of Herb’s contributions to literature was his book “Escape.” In this novella, set in August 1940, a group of fifty refugees from Germany and Austria are living in Luxembourg, desperate to escape the Nazis and reach the United States for a chance at a new life. The Nazis have taken over most of Europe, including Luxembourg, and the German authorities have granted the refugees permission to leave. They will travel in a convoy across occupied France to the Spanish border, where they must reach Lisbon and secure passage on a ship to the US.

A unique aspect of their journey is that the Germans have assigned a sergeant to accompany the group. He serves as their translator and ensures their safe passage to the Spanish border. Herb (the author) and his parents are part of this group, and his father is the appointed leader of the refugees. His role is to work with the sergeant to ensure a smooth trip, despite facing many obstacles and threats to the group’s security.

Another literary contribution is his short story “The Clasp Knife,” which he kindly posted as a guest author last August on this website. Herb’s introspective tale delves into the complex themes of abuse, healing, and the transformative power of self-discovery. He used his words to create a vivid picture of the human experience, reminding us of our shared connections through hardships and victories.

As I mourn the loss of Herb, I also celebrate the beauty and impact of his life. I remember the warmth of his smile, the twinkle in his eyes, and the gentle wisdom that flowed from his lips. I honor his memory by carrying forward the lessons he taught, embracing compassion and understanding, and seeking truth in the face of adversity.

In sorrow, memories of Herb bring solace. His profound influence lingers on. May his soul find eternal peace, and may his memory bless all who knew him.

Rest in peace, dear Herb. Although we will miss you, your light will forever shine brightly.